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Dating Tips for Her
If your New Year’s resolution is to bag yourself a new man, then you’ve come to the right place! We’ve thrown together some of our best dating tips and advice to help make finding Mr Right that little bit easier in 2014.
There’s nothing more attractive than a women with a relaxed, carefree attitude when it comes to dating.
So what if you go out on a few dates and you don't hear from him again? Instead of stressing and panicking over why - just reassure yourself it probably wasn't meant to be and move on. After all dating should be fun not fraught.
Play it Cool
It’s super important that you don’t go making yourself too available. Guys love mystery, suspense and the thrill of the chase when dating. So as part of keeping up the mystery, don’t go sleeping with your date too early on. After all you don’t want things to peak too early, we hear that the longer a person is made to chase and fall for you, the more likely it is that love will blossom.
If you're the one always calling, texting, emailing, and doing all the asking out, your guy will think he has it easy. So let the communication be balanced. This isn’t to say that you can't ever reach out to the guy you're dating, but let him do the asking out, at least in the early stages anyway. You can always let him know you’re interested by letting him know you’d like to see him again, at least that way you both know where you stand.
Your personal style is a great reflection of your personality and the way you’re dressed and groomed is going to say a lot about you. Expect some effort back on your guy’s part too, after all the aim of the game is to impress each other.
Give them a Chance
Men aren't all the same! As easy as it would be to base every opinion you have on a bad experience you’ve had with a guy or listen to your all girlfriend’s advice on men, ultimately all guys are different, so you should let them show up and show you how much they're interested for themselves!
Slow & Steady
Don't rush the getting-to-know-each-other bit of dating. Not only is this phase one of the most exciting parts, but it also gives you time to gather all the information you need to determine if he's boyfriend material and someone you want to be in a relationship with.
It’s a bit of a myth that discussing things you and your date have in common make you more attracted to one another. Of course it’s nice to share some common ground but it’s actually really beneficial to talk about some interesting personal experiences and hobbies too. Being exposed to new and exciting things increases the chemical dopamine in our bodies, and that in turn builds interest and passion.